Happy Wise Words Wednesday!
Sorry for the lack of posts lately, but I’ve been a little out of sorts. Since ending things with the new boy, I was lost in imagining all that I thought I had lost in the “what could have been’s.”
Obviously, when things are going well with someone new, you begin to make plans. Nothing too huge, but still plans all the same. You begin to wonder what your life will be like with this person and all of the possibilities floating around you can give you a high.
However, once a person pulls the rug out from under you, all of the plans quickly fall and crash all around you and you become a bit lost in the broken pieces.
It’s always important to remember that you can let yourself wallow in the shattered pieces for a time, but that you shouldn’t let it consume you enough that you feel you aren’t strong enough to piece them back together again.
For me, I took a couple of days to wallow and get out all of my sadness and frustration. But then this morning, it just kind of clicked that I needed to start moving on and remembering that there is someone out there that will help me keep all my pieces together and maybe even help make new ones.
In any rough situation that knocks you down, you have to remember that you are tough as hell and can pick yourself back up again. Sure, you can lean on your good friends and family for support, as you should, but you must remember that you are the one who can make the most strides in getting back to happy.
In any situation, try not to lose yourself in the broken pieces. Remember that you are tough enough to move forward because happy is just around the corner, you just have to have the courage to pursue it.
Stay tough and until next time,